Your Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer free sessions?
Matt does not offer free or discounted sessions. If you are genuinely struggling to pay, you may pay in instalments, at Matt's discretion. It might be helpful to note that due to the way he works, weekly sessions are not necessary. Also something to note is that Matt's way of working actually saves you money in the long term as it is usually swifter than traditional therapy. Most clients need just one session.
Is there any other way I can pay?
As we move into different times, we can all see that money exchange is changing. Matt is excited about this and is very forward thinking on how we can create abundance and also protect ourselves from what seems to be a major shift in the financial system. This is why Matt is happy to look at many ways to pay, for those whom this resonates with, such as alternative currencies, like Bitcoin, Ethereum, Litecoin and others. Precious metals and skill exchange are also possible. Please note that skill exchange is not always appropriate, it depends on what Matt is looking for. For example, he has several projects on the go that may require SEO specialists, graphic designers etc. So do feel free to enquire. Please note he does not exchange skills with other therapists or healers - this dynamic rarely works.
Also - if you can't yet afford to see Matt for a 1-1 session, you may like to join his Patreon community. This is not just therapy, there is loads of fun creative stuff on there too. You might just find that there is a post, vlog, podcast there that may support you. The link is here and in the sidebar (or below on the mobile site).
How long do sessions last?
Your first session is ninety minutes at no extra charge. Thereafter they last a full hour. Matt works in a way that is quite different from traditional therapy. He does not believe in ‘the therapeutic hour’ which traditionally lasts fifty minutes. This was actually done to purely give the therapist, who often worked in clinical environments, time to write notes between sessions. Matt does not think this is client-focussed and therefore gives the full hour.
How many sessions will I need?
Some clients prefer a course of therapy, this usually consists of six or twelve sessions. For those clients, they feel better about having committed to a course (although weekly sessions are rare, many choose monthly or every two weeks), knowing that they have a session coming up. For the overwhelming majority - just one session is enough.
Do I have to sign-up for therapy and commit to sessions?
Matt is quite concerned that he receives a lot of enquiries from prospective clients who have seen, or attempted to see, therapists who wanted them to sign a contract agreeing to long term therapy and/or a set number of session every week, before the therapist would accept them. This is unethical and Matt does not expect you to commit to long term therapy. Your only commitment is to attend the sessions you have paid for and booked. See Ts and Cs for cancellation policy etc. Please note - Matt always sends contact forms and a basic assessment prior to you booking your first appointment. Some clients assume that these are a contract to tie them in to seeing Matt - not at all. The contact forms and assessment are necessary for health, safety and confidentiality, as well as for GDPR regulations.
Does Matt do online therapy?
Yes. This has been the case for many years, but of course with the pandemic, he does all sessions online. This includes email support, which is different from face-to-face online or phone therapy.
What is the difference between this and traditional therapy?
It's quicker, is the short answer! Matt is fully trained in therapy and also an empath, often called a healer. This means that he is deeply empathic and can sense the energy that is connected to your emotions, psychological processes and more. In practice this feels like another human being really connects with you, resonates with you, and he can mirror your process very quickly. He does give advice, he doesn't robotically 'head nod' as many traditional therapists do, and he has a great sense of humour. When you feel like pants - someone shining a light back at you, with a cheeky giggle, can often be a gift in itself.
I have alternative views on COVID, can I talk about this?
Does Matt have a clinic?
Matt currently does not have a clinic in Cheshire. He occasionally does a clinic in London. For clients who prefer in-person therapy, Matt has a mobile therapy service. Please enquire.
I’m in therapy already, can I still see Matt?
It is unlikely but it will depend on the therapy you are having. Feel free to enquire.
I’m already in therapy, so don’t want to book sessions, but can you answer some questions I have that my current therapist can’t answer?
Please see the previous answer as this is likely to apply. Matt charges £35 per email response, should this be appropriate, that covers usually 1000 words or more.
I’m a student therapist, can I pick your brains?
Matt is happy to support emerging therapists. He charges per response. Please enquire.
I’m a researcher and would like to interview you for my research project
It will depend on the project but Matt does take part in research and has taken part in different social inclusion projects. You will need to be at PhD level or above and have a professional/academic profile that he can view, preferably online.
Do you work with LGBT people?
It is sad that clients sometimes need to ask this question, but the reality is that many therapists are simply not LGBTQAI+ friendly. Matt works with all sexual orientations and gender identities, and has vast experience in this area. He believes that (and research shows) LGBTQAI+ people are more likely to experience mental health challenges than heterosexual people. Prejudice, bullying and oppression forms part of this, as does familial attitudes to your sexual orientation or gender identity. Feel free to enquire for further information.
Do you work with sex workers?
Sex workers, as LGBTQAI+ people, are more likely to experience mental health challenges. Sex work is a stigmatised profession. Often sex workers find it very hard to find a therapist who doesn't 'pathologise' their job. This means that the therapist, or any practitioner, assumes that the sex work is harmful and that the sex work itself is the sole reason to seek therapy. Matt is pro decrim and has seen many sex working clients. He understands that to most it is just a job, that some enjoy it and some don't, that some feel financially trapped in it (as with many jobs) and that some enjoy it more than any job they've done. It's all about you - and you won't be judged here.
Do I have to pay in advance?
Yes. Matt struggled with this decision but in therapy there is often a very high 'DNA' rate, clients who didn't attend their appointments. Charging in advance not only reduces this to often zero, but it enables Matt to free up his hours to see clients who need his help and who attend.
What other issues can Matt help with?
Some of Matt's work, apart from the more obvious therapy and healing, is around supporting helping professionals with self-care needs and stress management. He works in social care in addition to his 'day job' and as such understands the needs of social care professionals. He is also a former nurse, so has worked in medical environments. Self-care often gets lost in the busyness of caring. Let's put that right. Please see 1-1 Training for details or email Matt.
I think I'm addicted to social media, can Matt help me with that?
Yes. Matt has a specific service that supports anyone to reduce and manage their social media and online activity, if it is causing them overwhelm and stress. Please see 1-1 Training for details or email Matt.
Do you have a question? Please contact Matt and he will do his best to support you. You may also want to check out the About Matt page.